Is any of your relationships troublesome??

Are your friends nasty?  Are your siblings troublesome to you? Any of the relationships worth keeping but you find difficult to cope up with? One side of brain wants to come out of that relationship but the other part says “One more try”?

In such a case first thing you need to analyze is if the relation is really worth keeping? If the relation has been a great support, then yes of course you need to overcome little troubles but if that relation has been a great source of reasons to cry then just let it all go!! Remember the things you learnt and forget the difficult phases.

Once you have realized that relation is really worth keeping, then there are certain things you can do to change the situations and circumstances. The first and foremost thing is to have acceptance and love for your own self. Take time off and give more to yourself. More love, more time for introspection. You need to have something first then only you can give to others. So you need to give more love to yourself. Go for doing those things that make you feel good, happy and rejuvenated.

When you have gained enough energy and momentum to be happy and high, you can turn any difficult situation around. Now sit down with a pen and a paper and write down all the things that you appreciate about the other person (the one you think is troublesome). It may be how supportive he/she is or it could be his/her sense of humor you enjoy etc. For next 30 days keep on writing their qualities and feel good remembering and reading them.

Once you will start doing that you will realize even more qualities to appreciate about them. And what will happen in those 30 days is a complete change in your relationship with that person.

In case that person is really in a mood or attitude that does not match the frequency you are on, then you will be put in a new, different reality away from that person. And that would definitely be for your betterment!!  You might find the company of new people with similar interests and thinking or might find some new activity to pursue that would make you feel even more joyous and alive. So trust the moments that come your way and enjoy!!